Sexual
Education - Orgasm Help
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I've heard from more and
more of our women readers about this. I have
found it to be surprising, but life still
has its little surprises. It is becoming
more and more common that men are having
problems achieving an orgasm. For so many
years we heard the press batter women and
the fact that they can't orgasm. Now, it
seems the other way around. Don't worry
ladies, I am here. I will tell you how to
make your man have an orgasm again. It isn't
that hard really. First, this is probably
the number one cause. You need to see how
much porn your man is watching. This won't
be easy.
You need to determine how much he is
masturbating when you aren't around. If you
find a lot of porn on your credit card or on
his computer, that is the problem. What he
is doing is saving up all of his energy for
porn. This is fairly common. I wouldn't be
too upset unless he is looking at gay
midgets. A lot of times when a relationship
goes stale, men turn to porn. Maybe you
haven't been turning him on like you used
to.
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Here is the solution.
While he is away, look at some of the porn he is watching.
See what is turning him on. Maybe he is into something kinky
that you never knew before. Go out and buy some lingerie.
Surprise him one night by doing what he sees in the porn
movies. Maybe we is into anal and you never tried that. If
that is the case, he will orgasm in no time to your never
touched before ass. Make sure that you are playing on what he
likes to see. If he likes seeing women with sex toys, let him
watch you masturbate. I'm sure that you would agree that you
would rather him watch you, then watch some other woman. Maybe
you are nagging him too much. When you nag the hell out of
him, it probably reminds him of his mom. If you are nagging
him about everything under the sun, then there is a problem.
The solution:
Shut the fuck up. Sorry to be so rude, but that is how us
men think. He get tired of all the bitching and moaning. If
you don't like us, leave. Don't make our lives hell. Even if
he doesn't wipe his shoes before he comes in the house every
day, bitching won't get it done. Maybe work has got him down.
Is he working a ton of hours? If so, then that is the problem.
He is probably stressed out and too tired to have sex. Yes,
even men have reasons why they don't want to have sex.
Solution:
Tell him to work less. Having everything brand new isn't
that big of a deal. If it is, get a part time job yourself.
Don't run your man into the grave over money. Something bad
has happened. Maybe he had a death in the family or had some
recent emotional trigger. You women love that word emotional
trigger. Something might be making him feel this way. If
someone recently died, I would ask why are you pressuring him
to perform? He probably doesn't even want to have sex. If your
main concern is to get laid, you are being selfish. You are
sounding like a man.
Solution:
Allow him to get his life straightened out. Don't force him
back into sex. If he did this to you, you would be upset.
Allow him time to get over whatever is at hand. If he doesn't,
you need to suggest that he gets help. You might have to tell
him that if he doesn't get any help that you will leave him.
Hey, it sounds bad, but you don't want to spend the rest of
your life with a basket case. Diet. Yes, this can affect if a
person has an orgasm. Too much caffeine can delay an orgasm.
If have went through periods where I drank too much coffee and
thought I would never orgasm.
Solution:
Get him off the Java. A cup in the morning isn't going to
hurt. A cup in the evening for pep is also okay. But if he is
chugging it down like he is at an AA meeting, he has a
problem. Too much alcohol can go this too. If he is always
drunk as a skunk, you already know what the problem is. If he
is drinking more than you can count each day, he has a
drinking problem. I would tell him to get some help or to move
on out. You don't need to be with a drunk.
As you can see
ladies, there are a lot of reasons why your man can't orgasm.
You need to talk to him about it and let him know that you
care. If it happens all the time, then you need to take it
seriously. If it only happens every now and then, no need to
worry. This happens to most of us men from time to time.
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