Sexual
Education - Fellatio
While our site is
devoted to providing men with quality sexual
education articles and information, this article
focuses primarily on information for the female.
It is also information that a couple may want to
explore together, to assist in a better oral sex
experience for both of you.
First I will say this, I know there are a lot of
women out there who don’t like giving or
receiving oral sex. I understand that you may
think that it is dirty or like in an Asian country
some women have stopped as they think it is an
evil sin. I will have to find out where this
article is and perhaps publish the web address in
my next column. Why am I writing about giving your
man a blowjob in my column you may ask, well I
believe that if you please your man like he tries
to please you, then to please him will please you
too. When giving a blowjob, giving head or going
down on your man, did you know that this form of
sexual gratification too could turn you on?
Hot
Blow Job…
How do you give the perfect blowjob?
Hehehehe, blowjobs, bjs hmmmmm… good topic don’t
you think? Giving a blowjob can be such a turn of
for both parties so try it before you say you don’t
like it.
Once
again like with the guys you both need to be
comfortable with it. If you feel that it is not a
clean "tool" then have a shower
together. Ladies take it in your hands, grab the
soap, lather it up and wash it, play with it, see
how it responds to your touch.
If there is room in the shower, kneel down in
front of him and look closely at it, see how clean
it is, before flicking your tongue over the tip.
See how clean it is… Now you know that it’s
clean because you helped wash it thoroughly, Close
your mouth around it and feel it grow hard in your
warm, moist mouth. Take
control and enjoy it as much as your partner!!
If you are being sensual and your partner tries to
thrust causing you to deep throat and gag when you
are not ready, grab him gently with you teeth, not
tight enough to break the skin but tight enough to
stop him…Do
not break the skin…
if you do all the romantic desires will have
gone!!!!!
Ladies use your tongue, flicking it backwards and
forwards as you suck. You can do both at the same
time. Trust me on that one…Now if you feel
comfortable sucking him in the shower, get off
your knees and head to somewhere a bit more
comfortable, like the bed, continue what you were
already doing but in a different position.
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Ok first if you
have lube – like KY jelly handy grab that before getting
onto the bed, flavoured is great….Have
your guy lay down on the bed, kneel between his knees, squeeze
a little bit of the lube, covering both hands…Take
his penis into your hands, see how slippery and sensual it is,
gently massaging the shaft with both hands, occasionally
teasing the head paying particular attention to the underside
of the head. Remember
that you must be gentle that is why I keep referring to that
particular word.
Now ladies hold on to his cock, use your tongue flicking over
the head, lick the head all over and use the flat of your
tongue to cover more area, gently suck on the head, sucking it
into your mouth at the same time flick your tongue back and
forwards around the head. Pay particular attention to the
Frenulum (the underside of the penis), as it’s the most
sensitive part of the glans (the head of the penis). Run your
hands over his inner thighs as you mouth moves on his shaft.
Lower your mouth over his shaft and the trick to taking in as
much as you can – to deep throat is to breath out as you are
taking him in. I know this is a big ask, but concentrate on
your breathing at the same time to avoid the uncontrollable
urges you may get. I won’t go into detail, but I am sure you
know what I am talking about. As
you suck him deep into your mouth and with your hand around
the lowest part of the shaft pump him gently as your mouth
rides his hot swollen penis.
As a bonus for your partner with the hand that is almost free,
gently massage your partner’s testicles. Squeeze them, hold
them, run your finger nails over them – there’s that word
again "gently", and at the same time sensually play
with them.
Now the choice is yours. If your partner is your long-term
partner and you feel you would like to taste him and swallow
his cum, then read on, if not skip this paragraph and go on to
the next… Your partner’s cock is throbbing with
anticipation as your tongue works it’s magic, you taste his
pre-cum it’s salty but nice, you wrap your hand firmly but
not too tight around his cock, with your mouth sucking him
deep, keep sucking as you pump him faster and faster… Keep
stroking him until you feel his cock throb and suddenly he
explodes sending his hot creamy cum down your throat… Look
at him and lick your lips to show how much you enjoyed sucking
his rod dry…
For the ladies who don’t like the taste, when you feel your
partner’s cock throbbing and you feel his hips starting to
thrust against you, take your mouth of his penis and with your
hand wrapped firmly around his shaft pump faster and faster.
Let your partner tell you how fast and how hard to stroke him
as he gets nearer and nearer to dropping his load for you.
As he
ejaculates let him know that you are excited too. I love
watching a guy cum so as he is crying out in pleasure, if you
are enjoying it too then I am sure you will know what to do…
Taking control of your partner’s orgasm ultimately is a
turn-on; learn how to give that special blowjob as it can
ultimately be a satisfying experience for all involved.
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